Confessions of a Fauf

Aspiring Chef

2012-02-13T12:40:00.001-08:00

Today I am making my first cake from scratch in honor of Valentine's. Keep your fingers crossed it all turns out okay. Pictures will come this week. I can definitely use all the help I can get....even from this little Cutey :)

2012-02-08T16:39:00.000-08:00

Where would I be without that mermaid? Recently I've been frequenting the Bucks more than I thought, and it was made evident to me when I got another free drink coupon in the mail the other day....when I had just gotten one last month! See, I have a goldcard which I put money on (a big portion of my monthly allowance), and everytime I use it to buy a drink, I get a point. After 15 points, I get a free drink. So I've gotten well over 15 drinks in the last month, which is more for me than usual. Normally it takes me a couple months to earn a free drink. The reasons?

1. Special drinks. Pretty much from fall until after Christmas I'm at the Bucks a lot because of their special holiday drinks. Though now they're done with those, so not sure this reason works anymore!

2. I've been hanging out with my friend Becky a lot and we both have a weakness for the Bucks, so if one of us suggests an iced coffee, the other is quick to agree!

3. Though Westly is sleeping better at night and I don't need a nap everyday, he is up longer periods of the day and is much more active and demanding. I gotta keep up my energy!

4. I pretty much only go online when I go to Starbucks, and good etiquette says you buy something if you're gonna use their free wi-fi!

5. I go through trends, and right now I'm in my coffee/chocolate cravings. I'm sure it will subside...hopefully!

Risk

2012-02-05T13:40:00.000-08:00

Today our Pastor Benji (cool name, right? Well, he's a cool guy) talked about taking risks for God, living a life outside the middle-class status quo and obsession of wanting safety and security.

He read a quote that basically challenged the church to be more adventurous, creative, and risky for the gospel.

Benji challenged us to live this way, on a large and small scale. He challenged us to ask a stranger if they go to church, and if not to invite them to ours. He challenged us to update our Facebook status with something like "I love Jesus with all my heart".

To say the least, his sermon galvanized me to be braver for Jesus.

I HEART This Month

2012-02-01T07:35:00.000-08:00

February is here! Which means I need to start planning my big romance plans. Since we've been married, I've been in charge of planning Valentines for us. This year includes our new love of our life, little West. So I've got to get creative in including him, and also working on a tight budget.

One of my cooking ambitions this year is to make a cake from scratch, and Valentine's would be the perfect occasion. I'm thinking of a chocolate mud cake, something so sinfully decadent and delicious, you would only feel comfortable eating it on this indulgent holiday!

I also need to start thinking of my artsy/crafty projoect for this month to keep up my resolution. I'm sure it will have something to do with hearts and red and pink....stay tuned!

Hugs and kisses!

Mr. Westly

2012-01-23T07:00:00.000-08:00

It's been awhile since I posted anything about the little Mini Doodle, so here's an update on his little life. He's crawling, pulling himself to standing, furniture walking, exploring everything, and eating Cheerios obsessively!

A Little S&P and Lots of EVOO

2012-01-18T13:51:00.000-08:00

Keeping with my New Year's attitude to reclaim my life and live fuller, I've been trying out brand new recipes at least once or twice a week. Last night I busted out my Rachel Ray book and cooked with some ingredients I've never used before, namely shallots and red wine. I made chicken cutlets in red wine and tomato reduction served with herbed fettuccine (it's sounds fancier than it was!) Yum-yum!

January's Art Project: notecards

2012-01-11T09:45:00.001-08:00

This month, to keep my resolution, I hand-drew notecards and envelopes for me to use in my correspondences. I don't really have a lot, but I like using that word :) I used markers to color them in. I may do some more...

Wishes Wreath

2012-01-07T09:44:00.000-08:00

This week Michael saw on the Today Show this idea of making wishes of things you want to do this year. They hung their wishes on a tree branch like ornaments. But we thought it would be fun to make a wreath of wishes. So for only $15 we made not only an artsy decoration for our front door, but also an inspirational piece for the year. Our wishes range from big things like take Westly to Disneyland, to little things like a picnic in the park. Now when Saturday comes, we don't have to ponder what to do. We can look at our wishes wreath and get some ideas. When we fulfill the wish, we'll record the date on the back. Should be fun!

If you're interested, here's how we did it. Bought a grape-vine wreath from Michael's for $9. Strung ribbon through it for some extra decoration. I did it real loose and almost birds-nest-like.

Cut out little tags from your fave paper. If you want to layer them (we did three colors), make the biggest tag about 3 1/4" by 2 1/4". Write your wishes on the cards. We also got glitter sticker letters to add some glam.

Hole punch the cards, string ribbon through them, knot at top. Then string your cards through the wreath and arrange them in a fun way.

We wedged some of the cards in the wreath as well.

Ta-da! Go with a color scheme that either matches the room it's hanging in, or that inspires you.

Resolution for 2012

2012-01-03T17:20:00.001-08:00

I'm not a huge resolution-maker. I always have the same type of goals for each year: draw closer to the Lord, love my husband even more, eat healthier, etc. But I also try to come up with one new resolution to meet for the year, usually something fun.

A few years ago I made the resolution to read at least one book a month. The next year, I made the resolution to make healthier eating choices, so we switched to free-range meats, shopped at Trader Joe's, and cut out soda and chips, etc. Last year, I made the resolution to be less-opinionated about people. So far, these resolutions have become habits in our life-style.

This year my resolution is to be more creative and artistic. I plan to have a project each month, and create something I can use or bless others with.

So for January, I'm going to make my own thank-you and hello notes to send to people. Every month I send my mom and grandmas pictures of Westly, so I'll make some cards to go with them.

There we go! Happy 2012!

So Long 2011

2012-01-01T11:11:00.001-08:00

Whew! What a year it has been! 2011 was filled with some extremities: exmtreme joy and some extreme moments of anguish. Of course this was mainly the year of Westly Cavanaugh, but some other great things happened as well.

I managed to write and publish my third book in the Sherlock Academy series: The Holmes Brigade.

In February, Michael and I went on one last get-away before the little Doodle came. A friend got us a great deal at Fess Parker Inn. We enjoyed a luxury suite and fine dining.

I enjoyed a wonderful pregnancy that was relatively easy with no morning sickness or issues. I have to say being pregnant was one of the happiest periods of my life. I enjoyed growing and learning about the baby, and enjoyed little perks like luscious hair and relaxive hormones that helped my back!

We spent the first months of the year preparing for and anticipating the arrival of our little Fig

Westly Cavanaugh came on his due date April 6 at 1:28am.

I had a great labor and delivery, and by the grace of God was able to deliver all-natural. It was the hardest and best experience of my life thus far!

Thanks to Papa Shaw, Michael and I were still able to fit in a few dates here and there, including our 4th anniversary we spent at Sycamore Springs in Avila. It was Westly's first over-nighter away from home and he was great.

We hosted our annual Halloween party. Theme this year: Heroes/Villains. Michael went as Mario, I as Princess Peach, and West as Toad

Hardest moment of the year: Westly's emergency. It took us by surprise, rocked our world, deepened our faith in God, and left an imprint on our hearts that will never fully go away. We are so thankful for everyone's prayers and support and for God's healing hand on him.

And here we are, the Shaw family, a little worse for wear, but very much in love with each other, the Lord, and with life.

Farewell, 2011! Hello, 2012. We are ready for another year, come what may. We wish you all health and blessings in this new year.
"Thus far has the Lord helped us..." (1 Samuel)...And He will help us again in 2012!

Christmas Part 2: Drazin Extravaganza

2011-12-29T13:50:00.000-08:00

We headed down south to spend Christmas with my family.

Christmas Part 1: Shaw Christmas

2011-12-19T09:54:00.001-08:00

This past Saturday night the Manor hosted Shaw family Christmas (minus the Ahlgrens--we missed you! xoxo) We started with exhcanging gifts. Then we ate a hearty crockpot meal of chicken, veggies, gravy, and stuffing. We ended the night with dessert and a hot chocolate bar. It turned out to be a lovely night, we all agreed!

Hurry Christmas!

2011-12-16T08:56:00.000-08:00

We can hardly wait for Christmas to get here! Our gifts are wrapped, our treats are baked, and our plans are made. This weekend we get to have an early Christmas celebration with the Shaw family. Then we'll head down south to enjoy a Drazin Christmas. Westly can hardly wait! (well, Mama, too)

Cooking Resolutions

2011-12-09T18:33:00.000-08:00

I know it's a bit early to start thinking about New Year's resolutions, but I've been thinking of some that are specific to cooking and food. I was browsing some of these fancy cook books I got at my bridal shower and never really explored. And I got inspired. So here are some things I would like to try in 2012!

I adore cheesecake and have ambition to make my own!

Cheese is my favorite and primary food group and my dream is host a cheese-tasting party!

I pay $1.95 for scones at Starbucks, and am thinking I should just make my own.

I have never made a cake from scratch. I want to go all out this year and make a cake and icing, etc. from scratch for someone's bday

When I found a recipe for chocolate eclairs that did not look too complicated, I smiled. I HAVE to make these (and share them with Papa Shaw)

Now I just need some great occasions for these special foods, and a little extra grocery money!

Happy Mid-Week

2011-12-07T17:15:00.000-08:00

I love my two super-heroes!

'Tis the Season

2011-12-01T09:15:00.000-08:00

Thanksgiving weekend, true to tradition, we decked the Manor halls with fa-la-la, and Westly got to be a part of it!

He got his to open his first gift of the the season: a Behtlehem book from Auntie Li and Uncle Ky!

The Shaw Trio

2011-11-27T15:28:00.000-08:00

Here we are!

The Day After

2011-11-25T09:01:00.000-08:00

It's the day after Thanksgiving, some referr to it as Black Friday. I like to think of it as Christmas Friday because this is the day we bust out the Christmas music, transform the Manor into Christmas fantasy, and embrace the holiday season. My fall wardrobe will be swapped for my winter/holiday one. I will be drinking ridiculous amounts of Starbucks gingerbread lattes and peppermint mochas. I will be shopping and wrapping gifts. We'll frequent a few Christmas parties. All in all, we will enjoy a month of fa-la-la---my fave time of the year! We'll see how the little Doodle responds the season. Let's hope he's not a Scrooge about it!

Mmmm...Soup

2011-11-14T17:30:00.000-08:00

The other night, when storms were brewing here in town, I made this delicious corn and cheese chowder. I decided to be a little fancy and make my own bread bowls . I found mini sourdough loaves at Trader Joes for 99 cents each. I cut out the center and filled the bread bowls with soup. It was the perfect meal for a chilly autumn evening!

1 large potato diced

1 bay leaf

1/4 tsp cummin

4 tbsp butter

4tbsp flour

2 1/3 cups buttermilk

5 green onions chopped

2 cups corn (frozen or fresh)

1/4 tsp of each: nutmeg,

ceyenne red pepper,

chili powder

2 cups grated cheese

Boil potato, bay leaf, and cummin in 2 cups of water for 15 min. covered.

Meanwhile, melt butter in saucepan, add flour and mix until pasty and bubbly. Gradually stir in buttermilk. On medium heat, whisk buttermilk mixture until it thickens. When potatoes are done, add them with their water and spices into buttermilk mixture. Add onions, corn and seasonings. Let soup simmer for 10 min. Add cheese and stir to melt.

Lucky 7...Or So We Hope

2011-11-06T07:00:00.000-08:00

October was quite a month for little Westly...a big month of firsts, some good and some not so good.

This month he moved downstairs to sleep in his own room and did just fine

He tackled his first full-length novel, but got up on words like 'thither', 'mischance', and 'felicity'

His sense of humor developed

He experienced good ol' Avila Barn

He had his first medical emergency

He celebrated his first Halloween!

Also, he cut his two top teeth and started scooting around on the floor. This month's goal: crawling! Stay tuned!

First Taste

2011-11-02T07:30:00.000-07:00

We decided Halloween would be a great night to introduce West to some rice cereal.

I'm ready, Mama and Daddy!

I'm a little unsure...

...but willing to give it a try...

...Oh! Not what I expected!

Can I be done?

First Halloween!

2011-10-31T19:22:00.000-07:00

Little Westly's first Halloween was all tricks and treats!

Westly was Toad from the Super Mario world. Daddy was Mario and Mama was Princess Peach!

Westly's First Avila Trip

2011-10-25T11:11:00.000-07:00

What would October be without a trip to Avila Barn? We took Westly there for his first autumn experience. He enjoyed climbing on the pumpkins, smelling all the yummy spiced baked goods, and watching people pick out produce.

Westly's Little Testimony

2011-10-11T16:10:00.000-07:00

This Sunday we had an emergency with our little boy. Sunday morning we took him to the ER because he was vomiting, going from screaming to completely sleeping and being lethargic in minutes, yet had no fever (so we knew he wasn't fighting the flu). After finding blood in his poop, the doctor determined he had intussusception: his intestines were folding in on themselves like a telescope. They gave him an enema, but that did not unfold his intestines, so we took an ambulance down to Cottage hospital in Santa Barbara for surgery. The pediatric surgeon there wanted to try the enema again before surgery. After three attempts, the third enema worked and fixed his problem! God answered our prayer of no surgery! We spent the night and were able to go home Monday evening. Westly is now eating and pooping and completely healthy! It was the worst, scariest day of our lives with lots crying and tons of prayer, but once again the Lord was with us. He kept Westly calm, gave us peace and wisdom, and healed our sweet brave boy without invasive surgery. Hallelujah!

Thank you everyone for your prayer and support. Westly should be fine--there is a very small percent chance this could happen again, but of course we'll pray against that :) As a side note, our experience at Cottage was wonderful. The staff took such great care of us, etc.

Please continue to pray for Westly and pray for his parents, that we can recover from this traumatic experience. We took it harder than West did, I'm sure. Pray the Lord will heal my heart and continue to comfort us. We love you all!

Autumn Yummies

2011-10-05T09:00:00.000-07:00

Autumn is my favorite season for treats. Candy everywhere, pumpkin goodies at Starbucks, hot cider brewing, and apples at their peak! I started the season off with an apple crisp from my trusty A-Z Cook book. Then I kick started October with my fave Martha Stewart pumpkin cookies. Try them out!

Apple Crisp:
2 medium tart apples (like granny smith) thinly sliced
2 tblsp water
4 tblsp flour
3 tblsp sugar
3 tblsp butter softened
1/2 tsp cinnamon

Preheat to 350. Divide apple slices between two 10 oz custard cups. Sprinkled with water. Mix flour, sugar, butter, and cinnamon with flour until crumbly. Layer over apples. Bake uncovered until apples are tender and topping is golden brown, about 25-30 minutes. Makes 2 servings.

Pumpkin Cookies:
2 cups flour
1/2 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp pumpkin-pie spice
1/4 tsp salt
1/2 cup (one stick) unsalted butter, softened
1 cup sugar
1 egg
1 can (15 oz) pure pumpkin puree
semi-sweet chocolate chips OR cream cheese frosting

Preheat to 375. In medium bowl whisk together flour, baking soda and powder, pumpkin-pie spice, and salt. Set aside.
Use electric mix to beat butter and sugar together until light and fluffy. Beat in egg. With mixer on low, alternately add flour mixture in two parts and pumpkin puree in one, beginning and ending with flour. Drop dough on cookie sheet.
Bake 15-20 minutes until puffed and edges golden. Immediately transfer to cooling rack.
Frosting: either melt chocolate chips or use cream cheese frosting. Spoon either one into small ziplock baggy, snip corner, and use to pipe frosting on cookies when cool.

Happy October!

2011-10-01T12:20:00.001-07:00

We're embracing the season in all its glory! Decorations, pumpkin goodies, and Halloween movies. Most exciting thing about this October: the Mini-Doodle is here to experience it all!

Save the Date

2011-09-14T16:16:00.000-07:00

The Holmes Brigade (book 3 in my Sherlock Academy series) is being released Sat. Oct. 8. We're doing a big event at Toy Zoo in town from 10:30--12:30. Spread the word! Whether you can come or not, you can pre-order your books now. Let me know how many you want and I will set them aside for you. Also Book 1 has undergone a make-over with a new cover! Exciting times!

The Big Five

2011-09-03T10:42:00.001-07:00

Little Westly is growing up so fast! August was quite an eventful month for the little mini-doodle. He's taught his Mama that there is no holding him back, no matter how ambitious he may be. He cut his first tooth, and he's already trying to sit up on his own! He continues to bring everyone joy!

He got to hang out with his cousin Mina for a few days when they came to stay with us.

Mallory and I enjoyed watching our babies play and sharing parenting joys and woes!

Westly met his great-great Aunt Gina and Uncle Lou when they stopped by...he charmed them both, of course!

He spent a few hours with his Auntie Courts before she headed back to China

He finally has come to enjoy his stroller. We walk to the park everyday...he loves to be outside!

He got his first shot ever. He was so brave, he didn't even cry...though Mama did!

He looks forward to Daddy coming home each afternoon and spending time with him.

He finally got on a great napping schedule this month, which has been great for him and Mama!

He is just as cute as can be! He melts Mama's heart everyday!

The End of Summer Vacation

2011-08-18T11:48:00.000-07:00

I know it's still technically summer, and I am not starting work anytime soon (I have a new job :) But summer vacation is over because Daddy went back to work. I shouldn't complain at all, after all I am SO blessed to have a husband who gets summers off. But I can't help confessing I always get bummed when he goes back to work and it always takes me a good week or so to adjust to his being gone. Especially this summer I really appreciated him home to help with the Mini Doodle. I felt like I got a little vacation too.

But enough moping. Westly and I have busy establishing a routine to our lives while Daddy's busy working to take care of us and let me stay home (I am so privileged).

Here's how Westly's and my days are going:
8-8:30am: we wake up (well, he wakes up first usually and lets me know he's ready to start the day) We cuddle in bed a little.

9-9:30am: we go for a walk. He enjoys his stroller now. He chews on his toys and watches the scenery go by as I get my exercise and prayer time in.

10-11am: he takes his morning nap so I can shower and do my quiet time.

When he gets up from his nap, we do all kinds of things. He plays on his mat and practices rolling around. Or we read books. Or we go meet with friends, or do errands. He usually gets in an afternoon nap and wakes up in time to greet Daddy at the door.

I think I'm gonna like this whole stay-at-home Mom-thing! :)

Sneak Peek!

2011-08-13T14:35:00.000-07:00

Go to www.sherlockacademy.com for a sneak peek of The Holmes Brigade. And mark your calendars for Saturday, October 8! More info to come....

Westly's First Road Trip

2011-08-10T10:10:00.000-07:00

This weekend we headed down south for a weekend of fun and family. It was Westly's first long trip and he did wonderfully. He slept through half the drive on the way down. And played the other half. He charmed everyone with his smiles, and barely fussed the whole weekend! Here are some highlights of his first trip:

He was quite cozy and content in his pajamas

He enjoyed playing with his book and fingers

He had no problem sleeping in our hotel room

He got to meet his older cousin Mina for the first time. She was very friendly and enjoyed holding his hands and babbling to him.

He finally met his Mimi. He gave her lots of smiles and thanked her for all the great Disney clothes she's been sending him.

We've concluded that Westly loves to travel and be out and about with people. He especially loves all his Shaw and Drazin family. Still he knows there is no place like home!

Honey Cookies

2011-08-04T16:11:00.001-07:00

When I was little (had to be like 6 or 7) my mom sent away for a kids A-Z cook book sponsored by Gold Medal Flour Company. And from that little cook book, I had my first lessons in cooking and baking. My mom saved the book for me and gave it to be a few years ago. I decided to try out some recipes for fun. One of the best has been the honey cookies. A few friends have asked for the recipe and I keep forgetting to share it. So here it is!

Ingredients:
1/2 cup butter or margrine (softened)
1/2 cup packed brown sugar
1/2 cup honey (I use local honey cuz it tastes better and helps with allergies)
1 egg
1 and 1/2 cups flour
1/2 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 tsp cinnamon

Preheat oven to 375
In large bowl beat butter, brown sugar, honey, and egg. Stir in remaining ingredients. Drop teaspoon-size batter balls on cookie sheet. Bake 7-9 min. or until edges are slightly golden brown. Tops will appear shiny. Let cookies rest on sheet 3-4 min. before removing them to cooling rack.
Optional: top with cinnamon-sugar mixture right when you remove cookies from oven. Mix 2 tbsp of white sugar with 1/2 tsp of cinnamon and sprinkled on top of hot cookies.

I Am Four Months Old!

2011-08-03T12:05:00.000-07:00

Confessions of a Mimi-Doodle:

I love to laugh all the time, even when I'm wearing my high-rise grandpa pants

I've gotten really good at grabbing objects with my hands, though I do get frustrated sometimes when my hands won't do what I want them to

I love being on my tummy and playing with my toys...I'm starting to scoot too

My favorite thing to do is to be sitting or standing up like all the big people

Just like Mama and Daddy, I am already loving books, especially my black and white animals books

Fine!

2011-07-28T19:14:00.000-07:00

Michael has been promoting his new blog about his story like none other. It's become a joke between us how I am sick of hearing about his blog! haha

But in all fairness, I really should help promote it and give him a shout out here because he is always so supportive of me and my writing. He's my biggest fan and Sherlock Academy's chief publicist. Without him, my book would not be what it is today.

He doesn't need much help promoting his writing, but I would still like to show my support. So if you haven't already, check out his new blog at michael-shaw.blogspot.com

The Holmes Brigade

2011-07-21T15:45:00.000-07:00

I have officially released the title of my 3rd book in the Sherlock Academy series. The Holmes Brigade is due to come out this October. I have just ordered a proto-type to check for any formatting and writing errors. Then I will be consulting with my wonderful graphic designer Mr. Ahlgren to design the cover.

I am very excited about this 3rd book. I wrote it during my pregnancy, and edited it during my first months of mommy-hood--there's a good chance this book may be dedicated to a little man in my life!

For more info, visit sherlockacademy.com and be sure to spread the word!

Sleepy Doodles

2011-07-15T13:16:00.001-07:00

My two sleepy doodles slept until after ten this morning. Regular-Doodle (Daddy) was tired from the Harry Potter 7 midnight showing. Mini-Doodle West) was tired from...well, life. Needless to say, I enjoyed the extra sleep too!

Happy Wednesday

2011-07-13T18:24:00.000-07:00

My days are pretty fun with these two around!

Our Anniversary Getaway...With Westly :)

2011-07-08T18:11:00.000-07:00

For our fourth anniversary we decided to stay local and skip our beloved Carmel because of the doodle being with us. We stayed 2 nights at Sycamore Springs in Avila (where we stayed on our wedding night). We got a little suite with its own hot tub on the back porch. It was so nice to get away and enjoy some down time...

We always make a stop at the barn in Nipomo where we were married.

It was special to take Westly there

At Sycamore we explored the Labyrinth

Daddy was ambitious enough to run through it

He showed great nerve and patience to endure its many twists and turns!

West and I cheered him on in the shade

Michael and I were able to go out to lunch and enjoy the Avila pier by ourselves

Thanks to Papa watching the little Fig

Westly did very well, sleeping as if he were at home, going along for the ride, and livin' it up!

Four Years of Bliss...

2011-07-07T10:26:00.000-07:00

...And counting!

Honeymoon July 2007

1st Anniversary July 2008

2nd Anniversary July 2009

3rd Anniversary July 2010

Hooray for our 4th Anniversary today! A little worse for wear, but still in love! haha

Three Months Old

2011-07-04T11:32:00.000-07:00

Our mini-doodle Westly is almost 3 whole months old (on the 6th). He is smiling and laughing all the time, even at complete strangers in Target! He is becoming more interested in his playmat at the toys hanging from it, especially his orange and black striped bee. He doesn't mind his car seat as much, and likes to be out and about. He is not much of a napper, but sleeps pretty well at night. He loves his Mama and Daddy very much.

Star Of Mommy's Blog

2011-06-26T15:33:00.000-07:00

Of course this cutie is the star of my blog...when you're this cute, you're always the star!

Cheeky Bird

2011-06-18T15:58:00.000-07:00

So you all know our history with birds and them building their nests in our wreath. The two different times this happened, it was a symbol of our little Doodle to come. Birds have therefore always been a positive thing...

...until the other day! I was walking home from the park, and when I turned onto our street, a black bird started chirping and following me down the street. It would swoop past my head, land on a branch, and chirp warningly at me. As I got closer to the Manor, the bird swooped closer to my head and chirped more desperately. I literally ran into the house just as the bird barely missed my head!

So weird! I have no idea what the bird has against me. Perhaps he wanted some of my hair for his nest. Or perhaps he has decided to take ownership of our front porch and is warning me of it. Or perhaps he has an urgent message about my future...like I'll be pregnant sooner than I want to be!

Either way, I'm a little freaked out to leave through my front door now!

Ode to a New Father

2011-06-11T16:49:00.000-07:00

Because I am a mother, I may not have time to post a blog this week in time for Father's Day. So to be safe, I'm gonna post an early blog in honor of a brand new father this year: Mr. Michael Shaw, father to Westly Shaw. From the moment Westly plopped out into this world (he literally plopped), Michael has been a great father.

The first two weeks, Michael really stepped up and did laundry, cleaned the house, made sure I ate and drank, and changed diapers.

Now that life has started to get more evened out, he gets to do more fun things as a dad, like playing with Westly, carrying him around Target so I could try on clothes, taking him downstairs in the morning so I can sleep an extra hour, moving laundry from washer to dryer, and making up new nick-names for the Doodle, like Ludvig von Baby!

Happy Father's Day to the love of my life!

Bed, Bath, and Beyond

2011-06-05T19:14:00.001-07:00

Mr. Westly is now two months old. He is growing, experiencing new things, and loving life!

Night-night time in his favorite airplane sleeper

Enjoying a visit from Grammy

Ready to go for a walk

Soaking in the tub, a new favorite pasttime

Getting warm and cuddling with Mama after a bath

Fauf's Favorite Things

2011-05-24T11:31:00.000-07:00

Oprah's not the only one who can have favorite things. Here are few of mine of late...

SLEEP! When I can get it...how precious it is. Prayers for Westly to sleep longer stretches through the night are greatly appreciated!

Baby K'tan! Westly loves being carried in this because he gets to stay close to me and he feels like he's still in the womb. Now that I know he likes this, I am able to venture out into the world!

Jamba Juice! I've had to cut down coffee because it doesn't agree with Westly via my milk. So I've taken up smoothies, which is probably healthier for me anyways!

Gilmore Girls TV Show! We started with Season 1 right before Westly came. We watched a ton when he was first here and we were recuperating. We are now on the last season!

Extreme Couponing

2011-05-21T19:12:00.000-07:00

I'm watching this show on TLC called Extreme Couponing, where these women make it their part time job clipping coupons and organizing their shopping in such a way to save big. The go grocery shopping and buy tons of food on sale with coupons. Their total goes from like $600 to $5! No joke!

It's inspiring to save money, but honestly the thought of using coupons is overwhelming. I'm lucky to have the organization and thought to use one! Still I may start watching my mail closer now...

A Hollow Leg

2011-05-14T20:09:00.000-07:00

I used to think it was absurd how much food my dad and brothers could pack away. They eat full meals like an infant: every few hours. When my dad goes to a restaurant, he doesn't just order one entree. He orders a salad, an entree, maybe an appetizer all for himself. And he still manages to finish anything we girls can't finish. Whenver they come to visit, I have to have lots of snacks on hand and it seems like our time together consists of talking and eating. My grandma always says the boys have hollow legs.

Well, now I can relate to them. Since breastfeeding, I am burning an extra 500 calories a day (so the books say). I am constantly hungry and I really haven't felt stuffed since before Westly came. Today I went to Subway and got a foot-long sandwich, determined to finally get stuffed, for I actually miss that feeling. I ate the whole thing and a little bag of chips and I felt satisfied....

...but not really stuffed.

I think I have a hollow leg.

Growing Up

2011-05-10T17:26:00.000-07:00

Our little Doodle-Fig is growing and growing, in length and width, and also in independence. Just this week he went from napping like this on one of us...

...to napping like this on his own!

I am excited about this new development, as now I am free to get some things done while he naps. But a little part of me misses that dependence on me. Still I find time to cuddle him each day, because before long he may even out-grow that!

Happy Weekend

2011-05-06T17:05:00.000-07:00

These days I look forward to the weekend almost as much as I did when I was working full time. The reason being that I miss Michael when he's at work, and don't mind his help with Westly so I can at least spend some extra minutes putting on mascara or eating my cereal at a more leisurely pace.

A few things to look forward to this weekend:

Tonight friends from church are meeting at the mall for dinner

Saturday we're free as the baby birds in our wreath to do whatever...

Sunday I get to celebrate my first Mother's Day be bringing Westly to church for the first time and getting him dedicated!

Happy weekend everyone!

I'm Three!

2011-04-27T12:37:00.000-07:00

Well, three weeks old, that is!

I'm growing longer and longer, and some of my newborn sleepers are getting a little tight.

I have become quite the mama's boy...my favorite place to be is lying on mama's chest. I have a hard time falling asleep without her.

I get excited and make crazy faces when Daddy talks to me and kisses my cheeks.

I am on the verge of smiling...I really want to, but have not quite coordinated it yet...soon though!

I'm becoming very strong. I can lift my head and keep it up for a few seconds to look around. I can also push with my feet and arch my back when I don't want to be burped.

I am still the cutest thing ever!

Love, Westly

Week 2

2011-04-19T17:08:00.001-07:00

Our little Fig is 2 weeks old already! Time is sure flying, he's getting bigger, and life is starting to have some normalcy again...well, the new normal anyway. Here's what's happening at the Manor as of late:

Westly's umbilical cord stump finally fell off today! Yay! No more smelly tissue hanging on him!

He was not as needy as he's been, which allowed Mama to visit with some friends, venture to Target, and go on a date to Starbucks with Daddy while Papa Shaw baby-sat.

He peed and pooped on the changing table and now needs a bath, which is good timing since that cord is off. Mama called him a "Naughty boy!" and Daddy laughed and said, "Way to go, son!"

We bought Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 1 on DVD and look forward to watching it tonight.

Daddy's been reading to Westly from his Bible storybook...he seems to enjoy it!

Mama is still trying to figure out bedtime with Westly and will be trying something new tonight...

The Shaws are one happy little family!

The Last 20

2011-04-17T17:03:00.000-07:00

I'm 29...sort of a strange age. It's an odd number, for starters. It's my last year of my 20's, and that's strange. Everyone says your 20s are your prime...besides dealing with chronic back pain/problems, I'd have to agree. I've had quite a fulfilling decade:

Went to college
Went on several overseas mission trips
Taught elementary school
Moved to a new town
Married my best friend
Landed my dream job of teaching art
Vacationed in Rome, London, Vegas, etc.
Wrote and published two children's books
Birthed my precious son

Life has been good

Westly Cavanaugh

2011-04-12T19:44:00.000-07:00

He came...on his due date no less. And he is absolutely perfect. We are very much in love! And he's already a week old

Return of the Nest

2011-04-04T13:24:00.000-07:00

Many of you will remember back in July we had a mother bird make her nest on our front door wreath. She laid 5 eggs and they hatched and she cared for them there until the babies grew up and flew away. We were very careful not to disturb them. The day we discovered the nest of babies was the day we conceived our own little baby. And a few weeks later when we discovered the baby birds had flown the coop was the day we discovered little Westly was nesting inside me. We took this nest as a special sign that God had his eye on us (just like He did on the sparrow), that He was answering our prayers, and that His plan was perfect.

There have been no more birds or nests taking up residence on our front door since last July....

Until yesterday!

When Michael and I returned from our afternoon walk on Sunday afternoon, we discovered a brand new nest in the same wreath on our front door! Michael had been praying for a little sign from God that our Westly was coming soon. And this was it!

We also took it as a reminder from God that again He is watching over us, that His timing is perfect for Westly's birthday, and that our dear little boy is on his way. I would not be shocked if Westly came on his due date.

What can I say, God is quite sentimental!

The Evolution of Fauf and Fig

2011-03-29T13:40:00.000-07:00

Here we are at the end. While we look forward to Westly's arrival, let's look back at his little life so far...

3 months

4 months

5 months

6 months

7 months

8 months

9 months

Another Journey

2011-03-24T15:22:00.000-07:00

This time last year we were preparing for our fantastic trip to London. It's hard to believe that we were heading there a year ago. How so much has changed in a year! This year, we are also preparing for a journey: parenthood! While it's a totally different journey than the London trip, we're doing some similar things to prepare for it.

Packing: instead of packing sweaters and scaves, we've packed a robe and newborn clothes. We have a small suitcase packed for the hospital.

Snacks: instead of having food to make lunches for our days in London, we have snacks ready on hand for labor and afterwards (mainly for daddy)

Reading: instead of reading tourist books, we're reading up on nursing, Bradley method, etc.

Documents: instead of boarding passes and passports, we have copies of our birthing preferences and insurance cards ready

Sourveniers: instead of returning with British flags and Big Ben magnets, we will be returning home with a little bundle of joy

We are just as excited for this new adventure as we were for London!

The End of an Era

2011-03-23T15:00:00.000-07:00

Being that I'm just 2 weeks away from Westly's due date, the reality of it all is starting to take hold of me. One thing I've been thinking a lot about is how I won't be pregnant anymore...I've gotten quite used to looking and feeling this way, it will be a shock to not have this belly anymore! I'm one of the rare women who have actually LOVED being pregnant, that I think I might actually miss it. Here's a list of things I will miss about being pregnant, and then a list of things I will not miss...

I will miss....

1. Not worrying about having a flat belly, especially after a big meal--the baby bump has covered that up

2. The extra thickness and luster of my hair--I hardly ever shed a hair, even in the shower

3. My skin being clear and glowing

4. Learning all about pregnancy and this developing baby

5. Feeling him move inside me--it's like having a little friend with me all the time

I will NOT miss...

1. Not being able to sleep on my back--can't wait to have a third sleeping position option again

2. Having to change out my wardrobe every few weeks and taking twice as long to get ready because clothes suddenly don't fit

3. Having to pee ALL the time

4. Being sore after simple tasks like bending down to pick something up, doing housework, or just getting in and out of the car

5. Seeing numbers on the scale when I weigh in that I've never seen before in my life

So there will be some things to mourn and some things to look forward to with the end of this pregnancy. Above all, I can't wait to meet and cuddle this little Fig!

A Break from Cooking

2011-03-21T14:15:00.001-07:00

Somehow I've been lucky enough to be treated to three dinners out in the last few days!

Dinner 1:
St. Patrick's Day dinner at our friends' house on Thursday. We got to try corn beef for the first time, and enjoyed it, along with all the sides. Bonus: We also got to have great fellowship!

Dinner 2:
Author's dinner at Spy Cliff in Shell Beach. Four authors were honored and we got to meet them and enjoy a good steak, all compliments of a generous friend who invited us. Bonus: I made a good connection with a literary agent--keep your fingers crossed!

Dinner 3:
Early birthday dinner at Uliveto's in Orcutt. Since Westly will be just days old when my birthday comes in April, my in-laws decided to take me our for my b-day dinner early. We went all out: bruscetta appetizer, pasta, chocolate cake. Bonus: I got to enjoy the company of my hubby and the best in-laws a girl could hope for!

Happy Irish Day

2011-03-17T12:24:00.000-07:00

Such a funny holiday, St Patrick's Day. I think the funniest thing about it is that it's one of those few random holidays that Americans love to celebrate, whether they're Irish or not. There are not too many of those. I mean, not everyone loves to celebrate the Chinese New Year (unless you're a kindergarten classroom or something). No one thinks much of Canada's Thanksgiving. But come St. Patty's day, everyone pulls out their green wardrobe and eats poor-man's food (no one makes a meal out of cabbage unless they're impoverished, like Charlie Bucket).

Well, this year, I have to say, I'm one of those Americans. I'm wearing the one green sweater I own, and we're going to eat corn beef and cabbage for the first time tonight, compliments of some great friends who want to spend the holiday with me and my picky husband. But we've agreed: we're game for anything on this St. Patty's Day!

PS For those of you who were hoping Westly would come today so you could add the second middle name of Patrick (hem, hem, Ig Master), I don't think we'll be that lucky!

The Final Stretch

2011-03-10T13:47:00.000-08:00

Here we are at 9 months along--one more month until Westly's due date! He is most likely around 6 lbs and 18 inches long right now--this is just an estimation. He feels smaller though inside me. His little feet like to stretch up to my rib cage, and he continues to get hicc-ups all the time! While sometimes the sensation gets a little annoying, it's a good reminder of his position. I feel the hucc-ups down low, which means he's still head down, which is what we want! I'm enjoying my time off: reading, writing, exercising, and getting the nursery ready. We're getting more and more excited to meet our little boy!

Our 'Baby-Moon'

2011-02-27T11:50:00.000-08:00

Michael surprised me with a little romantic overnight trip at the Fess Parker Inn in Los Olivos. Our friend, who works there, got us a killer deal that included the largest suite in the inn and wonderful breakfast vouchers. It was wonderful to relax and enjoy being away with each other--a last little fling before our Westly Fig comes!

All for Little Fig

2011-02-22T12:54:00.000-08:00

This weekend our crib was delivered and we spent some time assembling it. Well, Michael did most of the work; I held things and gave words of encouragement. We also framed some classic covers from a few Golden Books. Slowly, but surely, Westly's nursery is coming together. It should be completely finished in the next few weeks!

Languishing Lady

2011-02-17T15:45:00.000-08:00

My mum-in-law called and left a message today, wondering how I was doing as a languishing lady. She was referring to the new Fauf that has finished work and may not go back until.....who knows? It feels good to not have to work, or think about work, and it comes at a good time because I am getting bigger, more sore, and more sleep deprived because of all of the above. It's nice to have insomnia and not have to worry about getting up early to work....I have time to sleep in a little or take a nap the next day.

However, if you know anything about the Fauf, you know she is far from idle. I've been checking off projects on my Do To list. Here's what I've been up to my first week off work:

Deep-cleaned the house: dusted all the blinds, aired the drapes, scrubbed the tub, vacuumed crevices, etc.

Prepped taxes: itemized everything for my job and book business, have everything ready for our tax man, prayed God will be gracious with us this year!

Photos: changed some photos in our frames in the hallway, just for a new look

Author visits: did an author visit at May Grisham, and I have one more tomorrow at Pine Grove

Called Mimi: I haven't had a chance to chat with my grandma in awhile, so we got to catch up with each other

Nursery: sorted through all the great hand-me-down baby clothes from sister-in-law Katie, organized the changer, took inventory of what I still need

Book 3: I printed a draft of my 3rd book I've been working on and plan to pass it onto my editor RC Shaw soon

I did manage to have some fun also.I spent Monday with my hubby who had the day off too. I got to spend the afternoon with a friend who is due any day now with her 3rd baby. I baked some cookies and watched I Love Lucy episodes the other day. I've managed to have energy for my Mighty Mommies workout, and a neighborhood walk. And I've enjoyed feeling/watching Westly move more, and have been talking and singing to him as much as I can.

I'd say, all in all, my first week off work has been pretty good!

My Valentine

2011-02-12T20:21:00.000-08:00

How lucky am I to be married to my best friend, the love of my life, and my one and only Valentine all in one?

Pretty lucky.

So I never had a Valentine....I never seemed to have a beau when Feb. 14 came around. When Michael and I met, I wondered if he would be my first Valentine. And I hoped he would be my only Valentine.

Turns out, that's what God had planned. And I learned once more that God's plans are always the most romantic, the most creative, and the most special.

Here's to another Valentine's Day with my one and only Valentine....may we have hundreds more together!

Eight Months Already!

2011-02-09T14:13:00.000-08:00

At this point, Westly is practically all developed...his lungs will be the last thing to grow before he comes. Until then, he'll just pack on the pounds. Right now he weights 4 lbs, which puts him in the 78 percentile for weight at this stage. He is very mellow in the womb. He stretches, kicks here and there, but is very gentle. I'm thinking he's gonna be quite mild-mannered. We are so excited to meet him!

Countdowns!

2011-02-02T11:38:00.000-08:00

I feel like my life is about count downs right now. While I try to live in the present, I can't help but anticipate future events. Here are some of my countdowns:

Only six more days of work! While I love my job, I am ready to rest and enjoy my last solo moments before little Fig comes.

One more week until a three-day weekend....then we get two Mondays off in a row. I'm looking forward to this most because Michael will be off with me.

Two more weeks until the Oscars! We're excited this year because we've seen most of the Best Picture noms! (I'm rooting for the King's Speech)

I'm not the only one expecting a little bundle of joy. One more week until my brother and sister-in-law are due for Baby Girl Drazin. Also due is my friend Becky who does not know what she's having. Next my friend Whitney is due in March with a baby boy who will undoubtably be Westly's BFF. (I have no idea who this baby is in the picture, but it literally made my laugh out-loud in Starbucks!)

One month until our Santa Maria Target is completely finished with its renovations. We're promised a grocery area with produce.

Two months until my 29th birthday, but being that Westly will probably be here taking all the attention, we'll be celebrating my bday in March. So I only have one months to go!

One and a half months until our dear little Westly Fig is due, and our lives will be forever changed!

Preggo Photo Shoot

2011-01-25T16:40:00.000-08:00

Our friends Sean and Kim Troeger (who own their own photography company) surprised us with the gift of a pregnancy photo shoot. Here are some highlights of Westly and I:

First Peek at Westly's Nursery

2011-01-21T13:12:00.000-08:00

The past few weeks we've been working on the nursery. Michael did all the painting. We chose 'Baked Scone' for the wall color, which was nuetral enough to work with, but also warmed the room. Michael also painted by hand the little characters. Our theme is taken from the classic Golden Book picture books that we grew up with. The characters Michael painted are found on the inside cover of every Golden Book. While Michael painted, I sewed. I found Golden Book fabric and made a curtain ruffle, pillows, and more things to come. We're sure Westly will love it!

Seven Months

2011-01-14T13:09:00.000-08:00

Here we are at 7 months. Westly (and I) had a growth spurt this week. I'm suddenly very tired, a little sore, and running out of tops that fit. Westly is head down, so I feel his feet kicking up by my belly button. I think he's starting to recognize and respond to my voice. Usually when I stroke my belly and talk to him, he answers back with little kicks. Next we're working on him recognizing Daddy. I'm not sure how it's possible, but I already love him so much!

Remembering 2010

2011-01-04T13:22:00.000-08:00

Here's a little recap of the past year. What a year it was!

In the spring, we ventured to London and had the time of our lives!

We purchase our first piece of fine art

I published and promoted my second book Watson's Case

We welcomed a new neice (and nephew) into the family

We finally conceived our little Fig Westly!

At one point in the fall, our entire small group was pregnant at the same time

We hosted our 3rd Halloween party

And we enjoyed another holiday season

Christmas Cheer

2010-12-30T14:49:00.000-08:00

Well, Christmas was here and gone in a blitz of family and fun!

Last Eight Days...

2010-12-24T21:17:00.000-08:00

Here are the last four days of our 8 NIghts of Christmas. We finished today, to leave lots of room for Christmas day presents!

Day 5: purple clutch purse, green scarf, and pocket calendar
Day 6: Turquoise-colored satchel purse from Target
Day 7: Gray button up sweater from Target
Day 8: light frosty blue topaz and white gold necklace with matching earring studs...absolutely beautiful and unique. The light blue is a little reminder of our baby boy to come

It's been a great Christmas so far and the day has yet to come!

Eight Days and Counting...

2010-12-20T17:57:00.001-08:00

Today was day 4 of our Christmas gift-giving. Here's a little summary of my gifts from Michael so far...

Day 1: Taylor Swift's new CD--I've decided I like her as an artist and I like her music
Day 2: speakers for my iPod--I like to listen to my iPod while I get ready for work in the morning, and these speakers make it easier!
Day 3: Crossword Puzzle book and Hannah Montana pen--I love crosswords, I do not love Hannah Montana, but at least no one will steal my pen now!
Day 4: Breaking Dawn--this is the last book in the Twilight saga. Last year Michael gave me the other three, but we were waiting till this last book came out in paperback. Now my collection is complete

So far, it's been quite a merry Christmas!

Deck the Halls!

2010-12-16T17:59:00.001-08:00

The Manor is bedecked for Christmas!

Six Months

2010-12-10T14:03:00.001-08:00

Where is the time going? Where is this pregnancy going? I'm already six months along, little over half way there! These days I'm feeling little Westly thump and kick more reguarly, at least once a day. Somedays he thumps every time I sit down. Other days he's lazy and gives a few kicks here and there. His favorite and most consistent time to move is around 10pm. Although the other night I woke up at 3am and felt him moving around. I scolded him for being up so late! Michael finally got to feel him this week, which was exciting. Daddy talks to him, and now bids him goodbye in the morning as he leaves for work. Now that Westly can hear outside sounds, I'm sure he's loving all the Christmas fa-la-la. We got our first big nursery gift: glider chair with ottoman, thanks to Moma and Pops Drazin.

Westly is over a foot long now, and weighs a pound and some change

I've put on 5 lbs this past month, my biggest gain yet (I had been consistently gaining 2 lbs each month). Gotta fatten up that baby!

Daddy's weight hasn't fluctuated...although it could with all these Christmas yummies around!

And His Name Shall Be Called...

2010-11-29T18:26:00.001-08:00

...No, Michael has not been mute and suddenly had his tongue loosed. (I don't think even an angel of the Lord could accomplish that :) But we have decided on what to name our cuddly baby boy:

Westly Cavanaugh Shaw

Cavanaugh is an old family name on the Shaw side. We thought it was interesting and also wanted to honor the family and carry on a little Shaw legacy. Westly has always been a favorite of mine, and Michael has grown to love it as well the past months. Before we knew what Fig was, we landed on this name. Then once Fig announced he was a boy, we knew this was the only name for him.

I think he already likes it, for he's been thumping for joy quite frequently lately!

We love our teeny Westly!

Counting My Blessings

2010-11-19T14:03:00.000-08:00

It's Thanksgiving soon again! While I am always thankful for all the blessings in my life, this is a good time to blog about them. There are countless blessings daily, but here are the big ones that come to mind...

My dear hubby, who still makes me laugh and always makes me feel special and loved. I still marvel at the way we met and how our story continues to unfold.

Our cuddly little Figgy-Boy, growing healthy and strong in my womb. Nowadays, he likes to remind me he's there by thumping inside me throughout the day.

Our family and friends who have been so supportive and excited for us and our baby. They've added so much to our joy.

Sherlock Academy and the creative outlet it's been for me. I am still in awe at its success.

The Manor...what a blessing this home has been to us and others.

Thank you, God, for all these blessings and more! Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

Beetles and Snails...

2010-11-13T12:55:00.000-08:00

...And puppy-dog tails
Baby Fig has something to share with the world: "I'm a BOY!"

Our dear little Figgy-Boy is 5 months old in the womb...halfway till birth! When Dr. Dillon said, "It's definitely a boy!", we cheered and teared up. We would be happy with either, but there was a little part of Daddy-Ig that really wanted a boy, and a little part of Mommy-Fauf that had an inkling toward a boy. We are so thrilled, as is our families. We're pretty sure on Baby Boy's name (aside from its nickname Fig), but you'll have to stay tuned for that later :)

Halloween Happenings

2010-11-07T17:07:00.001-08:00

I know this is a week late, but here are some highlights on our Halloween dinner last weekend. The decor theme was branches and crows (Michael did all the cut-outs for it). The dress up theme was Opposites. Michael went as a Twilight fan, and I went as a Harry Potter fan, which are opposites. And also opposites of what we like!

Four Months

2010-10-22T11:22:00.000-07:00

I am now 4 months along! This pregnancy is sure going by fast, probably because I am enjoying it so much! My energy is back, along with my appetite. I had a check up last Friday and everything looks good. Fig is about 4 1/2 inches long and moving a lot (as seen on the ultra-sound). I am hoping to feel Fig for myself in another week or so. We have an appointment for Nov. 18 to find out if we're having a Figaro, or a Figiana!

Manor Make Over

2010-10-15T10:31:00.000-07:00

The past few weeks we've been busy moving things around and giving the Manor a make over, partly because it was time and partly to make room for Baby Fig. It's always exciting to apply a fresh coat of paint, and decorate with new colors, etc.

After looking at these kitchen windows and telling myself to put curtains up, I finally made the time to sew some myself. They add an instant touch of color and homeiness!

Next, we combined the guest room with the office, since the old guest room will be the nursery.

The office is against the opposite wall. Everything fit great!

Michael painted the room, and we got new bedding and wall art.

Date Night

2010-10-08T20:39:00.000-07:00

Michael has decided that Thursday nights will be our date night each week because once our Baby Fig comes, we won't be going much of anywhere for a while! I readily agreed. We decided on Thursday night because it will get us excited for the weekend, and give us something to look forward to on Thursdays, which in my opinion has always been a stupid day (I mean, it's not the middle of the week like Wed, and it's not the end of the week, like Fri--it's just this extra day keeping you farther from the weekend!)

Last night we ventured up to SLO and had dinner at Mama's Meatball, which is tucked behind the Creamery. They have an order out part, and a nice sit down restaurant. We ate in the restaurant. It's excellent food, lovely ambiance, and very reasonable prices.

Anyways, we've made a list of places to go for dinner (we're on a budget still). We're open to more suggestions!

List:
Jack's of Orcutt
Adamo's
Olivia's
Orcutt Burger
Ulivetto
Applebee's
Olive Garden
Red Robin
Gilli's
Chili's
Marie Calendar's
Corner View Bistro
California Pizza Kitchen

October 1st

2010-10-01T14:47:00.000-07:00

October 1st is like a holiday for the Shaws. Our tradition of noting this day started when I first moved to Santa Maria back in 2006. October 1st I left a little Halloween goody in Michael's box at the preschool when he was still working there. Ever since then, I have made October 1st special by baking a pumpkin goody and giving Michael a little Halloween gift. We've also made this the day we bring out our Halloween decorations (different from fall decorations BTW) and bring out our Halloween-Fall themed movies.

Both of us love the month of October. For us, it is the biggest month of autumnal festivities. We go to a Sleepy Hallow dinner theatre with my family, we host our Halloween dinner for friends, we watch our old classics like Hocus Pocus and the Addams Family, we go to Avila Barn, and drink and eat all things pumpkin!

For us, October also signifies the start of the holiday season: Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's. We get excited anticipating and participating in our many family traditions that make each holiday a unique treat.

Today I baked Martha Stewart's pumpkin cookies (yum!), wrapped a little gift, and set out the box of Halloween decorations and movies.

Hooray for October the First!

Autumn Is Here!

2010-09-24T11:19:00.000-07:00

In the past, the Shaw Manor has waited until October 1 to display its autumnal and Halloween decor. But this year, we couldn't wait! We decided to put out just our fall decorations yesterday, and October 1 we'll add our Halloween decorations as well. I baked some Apple-Cinnamon bars to celebrate the season, and we bedecked the Manor halls with autumn goodness.

First Baby Bump!

2010-09-18T11:46:00.000-07:00

Here it is! I'm on week 12--last week of Trimester 1. My, how it is going by fast! I've been so blessed not to have morning sickness this trimester. I still have the fatigue thing, and it's always the worst from Fri--Sun. But every time I feel the life of me being drained away, I just smile because I know the Fig is growing! And so am I!

Current Favorite Things

2010-09-10T14:24:00.000-07:00

Every once in a while I blog about my favorite things I'm loving for the time being. Being pregnant, my favorite things tend to change quite frequently, but these are a few of my favorite things that have been so for more than a week!

It's autumn already at Starbucks! From now until after Christmas, I drink my weight in Starbucks...there are too many seasonal yummy things from Sep to Jan. Right now I'm loving the pumpkin spice lattes, both hot and cold! Of course I do decaf for the Fig.

My most consistent craving has been these gummy fruit snacks. My fave brand is the Market Pantry brand from Target.

Recently I've been finding myself making dinner while watching the Simpsons. I've never been a fan of them, I never watched them when they were popular. But now I'm finding them really funny and entertaining!

Perhaps my most favorite thing, and the Fig's favorite thing, is SLEEP! Since I'm back to work, I've been taking naps each afternoon when I get home. And even with a nap, I'm ready to hit my pillow by 9:30 every night!

Fauf+Ig=Fig

2010-09-02T11:27:00.000-07:00

Now that Fig (that's what we're calling Baby Shaw right now) has gone public, it is time for its story to be told to everyone as well. It all started a year ago beginning of August when we decided a baby would complete our our lovely life. We tried and tried....and tried some more...Meanwhile a year was slipping by.

This past summer we discovered my body needed a little extra help, so we took the doctor's advice and hoped for the best. We were feeling a little discouraged about the whole thing, wondering if Baby Shaw would ever show up in my uterus. Then one day in July, we discovered a mother bird had built a nest in our front door wreath and hatched five little babies (you all remember the blog). The same day we discovered the nest, we also discovered the fertility help was working and it was time to try once again for our Fig. While waiting to discover if it worked this time or not, we kept thinking about that little bird nest and believed it was a little gift from God to remind us that He had not forgotten us this past year and He had His eye on us, just like He did on the sparrow.

Well, we waited a few weeks, as everyone must do. While we kept telling ourselves it could still take a few more tries (just so we wouldn't get our hopes up), we remembered God's sign of the bird nest and were comforted. Then towards the end of July, those baby birds suddenly grew up and flew away. That night we discovered someone new was nesting inside of me!

We were overjoyed, laughing and crying and hugging all at the same time. Michael had a feeling I was pregnant before I did. So when we were at an antique shop earlier that week, he had bought a little bird pin. The night of Aug. 2 when we found out, he gave it to me as a gift and a reminder of God's sweet sign of His promises through that bird nest on our front door.

The week we discovered our Fig marked exactly one year to the week since we started trying for it. When I realized that, I just had to smile at God and His quirky sense of humor. And of course thank Him for never forgetting us along this difficult journey of faith. Our God is quite sentimental!

Those Darn Pigeons!

2010-08-26T11:36:00.000-07:00

I probably sound like an old woman who's lived in her house far too long...

But these darn pigeons are driving me nuts! They're roosting on our roof and chimney. I hear them not only cooing, but scratching and moving around on the roof tiles, and it's kinda freaking me out. When I look out on the roof from our bathroom window, I see tons of dried pigeon poop, and that aggravates me because I like a clean house and there's not much I can do about keeping a clean roof.

We enjoyed our little mother sparrow last month with her nest in our wreath, but that was not an invitation for all birds of a feather to flock together at the Manor. And pigeons are terminally stupid, so I doubt there's any reasoning with them to leave.

I am not the bird woman, but I would definitely pay someone more than tuppence a bird to exterminate them from the premises.

Suggestions???

My Own Version of Exercise

2010-08-23T10:16:00.000-07:00

I decided to quit my gym membership. Earlier in the summer, they replaced my Tue/Thu afternoon classes (which I loved and had been faithfully attending for two and half years) with this new exercise program. I gave it a couple tries, only to find that I hated it and it aggravated my back problems. I decided to try some other classes they offered. I attended some morning classes during July, which were okay. But I realized once school started, there was no way I could attend any morning classes, and all the afternoon/evening classes were taken over by that new program,

So I made the step to cancel my membership and save $30 a month--now it's going towards paying off our fine art, which is much more enjoyable that hurting my back at the gym.

However, this does not mean I will let myself go--that is not Fauf! I've decided to discipline myself to walking or riding my bike for at least 30 min. everyday. I've also bought some dumb-bells to keep my arms toned--I can do this while watching TV. And of course I'll keep up my stretching.

So far, I'm doing pretty good. And it's helped having Michael or friends join me on walks and bike rides, etc.

Let's hope the Fauf can stay disciplined!

Auntie Fauf

2010-08-16T14:42:00.000-07:00

I am so blessed to be an auntie to such lovely nieces and nephews, the most recent being tiny Emma Rose!

Disney Princess?

2010-08-06T11:13:00.000-07:00

I'm wondering if perhaps I am a Disney princess without knowing it. Perhaps when I was born there was a mix up at the hospital, and my real parents (Disney king and queen) accidentally took home the wrong baby and the Drazins took home me. This is why I think this...

Little critters of all types have been flocking to me! First we had a mother bird build her nest of babies in our wreath. After that, a random squirrel was spotted checking out our front lawn. Then last night, I spotted a tiny frog clinging to the inside the of the fron door. It hopped off, and when I opened the door for it, it hopped right out the front door and into the bush!

I'm wondering what else I'll attract. Is a fawn next?

Watson's Case Weekend

2010-08-01T21:50:00.000-07:00

A special thanks to all my family and friends, both old and new, who celebrated the release of my second book, Watson's Case. It would not be what is without all of you, especially a few individuals I must acknowledge here.

Michael: because of your assertive campaigning, advertising, and creativity, the book release event at Toy Zoo drew crowds larger than I ever dreamed! You worked so hard to promote me and my book and it paid off. I would never have published or pursued this hobby without you. I love you!

Marc, owner of Toy Zoo: due to your enthusiasm and willingness for us to take over your store, the kids enjoyed activities and I sold out of books! I think this is the beginning of a new business relationship!

Dad Shaw: the new book is dedicated to you for all your love and support and editing expertise. Someday I hope to pay you. In the meantime, I love you!

Kyle: your excitement, creativity, and support reflected on the front of each copy I sell has visually turned Sherlock Academy into a wonderful thing. One kid told me, "I bought your book because I liked the cover!" Thank you!

Family and Friends: special thanks to my mom and Mimi, Sarah and Adam who made the long drive up for the event. Special thanks to Jon, Morgan, and Adi who snapped photos, brought fun siblings to the party, and gave me extra moral support. Special thanks to the great Kiniry Clan for using the Burrow to host the private release party--it added extra magic having it there with them. And thanks to everyone else!

And all humble thanks to God, who for some reason decided to inspire me with Sherlock Academy, and allowed me to share it with others. I'll never fully understand His plan--it's too grand!

Bucket List

2010-07-27T10:29:00.000-07:00

Everyone should have a bucket list, that way if you're dying and some rich celebrity asks how they can make your dreams come true, you won't waste a single moment considering. Here's my list as of now:

1. Live in England for some period of time, even if it's only a month

2. Travel abroad more

3. Finish and publish my Sherlock Academy series (5 books in all)

4. Sport a more daring hair-style

5. Meet someone inspirational and powerful

I'll stop there, but I may add to this list as time goes by, and who knows if I'll be able to check some things off anytime soon?

Nesting Omen

2010-07-15T13:01:00.000-07:00

We've had a little addition to the Manor this week. A mother bird has decided to build a nest in our front door wreath! The past few days she's been nesting there, and we've been hearing strange noises at night. Last night I took the wreath down, thinking I had better save it inside. As I lowered it, I saw a tiny nest weaved in it! Not only that, it was packed with very very newborn babies! They must have just hatched, for they were SO tiny, packed together cozily, and were not even chirping yet. I carefully replaced the wreath without touching anything. I hope Mama Bird returns to care for them. Be gentle knocking on our front door the next few weeks!

We're hoping this is a good omen of things to come for the Shaws. Most people know we've been trying to conceive for awhile. We're itching to make our own nest for a little one. Perhaps this Mama Bird was sent by God as a friendly reminder that a baby is in our future soon!

Either that, or it's a sign of the bad economy, that even birds are hard up to afford their own house. They have to mooch off of civilization!

Highlights

2010-07-12T19:03:00.000-07:00

I've been adventuring all over California the last few weeks. I don't want to make anyone read a long account of my adventures. Rather I'll give you all little snippets...

So-Cal with the Drazin clan:
Mom's new guest room (courtesy of Noelle moving out) is darling

My cousin Jessica's nine-month old babe is so smiley and friendly--he literally climbed into my lap the first time I said 'hello'

Mimi marched in place and waved a mini US Flag while we all sang "She's a Grand Ol' Flag"!

Fourth of July at the Manor:
Our front yard proved again the best spot to watch city fireworks

Michael did his traditional crazy gnome dance around the street fireworks

Adelaide wasn't too keen on all the noise

Anniversary in Carmel:
Lunch at Antone & Michel's was worth the year-long wait

Every gallery owner pegged us as rich art connoisseurs and tried to sell us art

We got addicted to Cake Boss on TLC--may be our new fave TV show

Lake Tahoe with the Shaws:
We discovered a thrift store called "Funky Junk" and loved hearing 2 year old Christopher say "I wanna go to Funky Junk!"

Michael and I fell in love with a new artist at a local gallery and purchased our first piece of expensive fine art!

I laughed and argued with the rest of the Shaws during a game of Scattergories--funniest moment was when Jason and I both put down 'Bed Bath & Beyond' for an entry, hoping to get 3 points! We were quite bummed we both had that

Extended Vacation

2010-06-30T17:50:00.000-07:00

Turns out the Fauf is staying down south longer than originally planned. She's attending a big family get together at Mimi's this coming Sat, then she'll head home. While she's having a grand ol' time, she does miss her hubby very much. Being apart, with him up there and her down here, brings back memories of their dating season. And the agony of being separated comes flooding back. Thanks goodness it's only temporary by a few days!

Heading South

2010-06-23T16:50:00.000-07:00

I'm heading down to my old stomping grounds. I'll spend some time with Mimi and the family. My sister and I plan to do some good quality shopping at a REAL mall--you know, one of those giant structures with more that a dozen stores and outlets. I'm excited to see Noelle's new apartment, dip in Mimi's pool, and see how tall my littlest brother Andrew has grown (word on the street is that he's sprouted exponentially recently). My wonderful hubby has given me some extra spending money as a gift, so there's no stopping the Fauf!

Secret of the Month

2010-06-18T11:49:00.000-07:00

Fauf and Ig do a funny thing where they tell each other a 'secret of the month', something they didn't know about each other. Fauf's secret of the month is that she knows more about basketball, Lakers, and the NBA than people think she does. Here's a little about what she knows:

She knows Derek Fisher is a Christian and family man

She knows how to set a "screen" for defense

She's sad Rick Fox is retired

She knows shooting fouls result in free-throws, but sometimes when a team/player has so many fouls against them, ANY fouls results in free-throws

She loves watching her little bro Andrew play the most. Her fave highlight is when he shot a half-court shot, made it, and won the play-offs! Unforgettable!

Catching Up

2010-06-12T14:56:00.000-07:00

Now that school is over and summer vacation is here, I am playing catch up...

on sleep (I slept 11 hours this last Friday night, and even dreamed of sleeping)

on house projects (we need to rearrange the office)

on shopping (I've been saving my allowance for a shopping spree at Forever 21)

on writing (I'm putting the finishing touches on Watson's Case due this July 31)

on friend dates (breakfast with Jen, and beach dates with Marisa this week)

on movies (Toy Story 3 and Eclipse are a few I'm looking forward to this summer)

on leisure time (book reading, magazine flipping, crossword working, and Scrabble playing)

Summer Fauf

2010-06-05T18:30:00.000-07:00

That's right! Summer Fauf is coming out! This next week school is over, and summer vacation kicks in. It's hard to believe it's summer again! And the Summer Fauf will be alive and well. You can look forward to the following from Summer Fauf:

1. Spontaneous escapades--plans play a minimal role in Fauf's Summer life

2. Late night living--movies, games, reading, etc. into late hours of the night

3. Summer garb--sun dresses, skirts, shorts, tanks, bathing suit become the Summer Fauf uniform

4. Cold snacks--a constant craving of frappuccinos, Otter Pops, Frosties, etc.

5. All around free-spirited goofiness!